Potato Queen

By Rafaelito V. Sy

Juancho is an immigrant from the Philippines. But unlike a lot of immigrants, he is not escaping poverty. He grew up in a mansion with servants. He attended the best schools and went to college in the States. After college he got a job working for a travel agency that specializes in tours of the Far East. He parents love him and his siblings are successful in their own right.
So why has he left his family and settled in San Francisco? As he explains at the end of the book, "I would rather be alone in America than to be a freak in my own country." He says that in the Philippines, homosexuals are perceived as, "aberrations of nature no different from Barnum and Bailey's circus of freaks."
Juancho knew from a young age that he was attracted to men. His first crush was the maid's boyfriend, James Cagney Alejandro. The boyfriend was half-American and had fair skin. Ever after, Juancho would be attracted to white men. Thus the title of the book, Potato Queen. As I understand it, which I admit is not well, a potato queen is an non-white male attracted to white, European-looking men. Where a rice queen is a white man attracted to Asians, especially to young, boyish Asians.
Juancho longs for true love. But every man he thinks is the beginning of something wonderful turns out to be just a one-night-stand. Gerald, the man he becomes closest too, isn't interested in continuing their relationship beyond friendship. He and Juancho spend a lot of time together, they go on hikes, they go to the gym, they meet friends for dinner and they go clubbing together. But Gerald won't take it any further.
The other men Juancho falls hard for also are not interested in anything beyond casual relationships. They seem happy to be with him for one night and then move on. Poor Juancho is left heartbroken, yearning and lonely.

I knew this story had gay characters. But I bought it because the blurb on the front said, "Very funny! It's what Desperate Housewives would be if it were set in The Castro." And "J'adorable!"
I found it to be neither funny nor adorable. That doesn't mean I disliked it though. I totally identified with Juancho's feelings as he chased after the ever-elusive lovers. His doubts and questions were so familiar to me, as a straight woman. Love makes fools of us all, no matter our sexual orientation, I guess.
There is a lot of gay sex in this book, but it is not explicit. It is touched upon but not in pornographic detail.